2013年1月10日星期四
A Grand Wedding
Every time I see a grand wedding, the wife always have mixed feelings: in this life, I have not tried to do the bride's taste. Yes, a decade ago, in all respects unhappy, defeated in their careers, when owed a debt ass, now wife still hesitate to become a woman. Day, no wedding, no luxury feast just invited two friends to put a string of firecrackers from the wife's family separated by hundreds of miles away, she took the hastily eat a meal, even if the completion of the entire wedding ceremony.
Love naked marriage then why not remember to have met with his wife, I'm her hometown side work, perhaps the emotional stuff is very strange, in that one being the love between two people quietly rooting, but doomed this kind of love to go through the suffering and the baptism in trip that stumbled Love run, the constant emotional acquaintance four years after finally go in together.
Knowledge of the wife, in 1998, I was working, the wage is 1,000 yuan, wasteful spending, there is no savings to speak of, but I boasted in front of her, be sure to give her a warm home, a permanent dependency of happiness. She used to smile, how to marry me. I remember, he patted his chest, and vowed she said, and our love to witness a grand wedding. Only later witnessed in the most difficult moments, we stationed the hearts of the truth that an indemnity for a long while in material terms, but never to consider too. Really, at the moment, my wife always feel guilty, another woman bride moment, the proud face bursting happiness among smile, and that Xiangche banquet, I have never meet her in form. After all, every woman is married, is that time is their own day, but his wife, he was mercilessly deprived.
When the acquaintance after six months, the parents of his wife after hearing the news, we combine hold an attitude of opposition, they will either do not trust their beloved daughter with me marrying to Barry Furthermore my are unfettered youth in the community, not to mention my personal life nothing is understood that at the time there was not enough material conditions to prove that their daughter can live a happy life, naturally, his wife figure in my of sight. However, dozens of miles away from my home, secretly give me a call, the wife always told me that contact way, this way, love is still in a hidden state forward.
Maybe bad weather, I left that place to go to work as far as the city of Ankang, Shaanxi, interrupted a long contact with his girlfriend at the time, and later learned that her parents gave her an object, a local wealthy family, but she always ignore each other and not see either refused, her parents also fail to beat her, only stalemate, the man still came to her home, she is far away, until the other from go to get back home. At that time, and believe that our Jiaqing defeated by the reality of life, always in the blind brokered bid farewell to former love. Girlfriend at the time, in order to encourage my confidence, travel long distances, unaccompanied came to the well-being, she is on the way to experience interchange and other cars, but love her without. A short span of three days, I told myself, must Fengfengguangguang marry her. But after her parents learned that I meet, the only way is also cut off, then call, always the mother-in-law answered the phone, she very kindly tone, I feel me in in, is the biggest threat to her daughter.
Maybe love this thing, always very strange, she had an unwritten rule not all love is built on the substances on the basis of, after six months, his girlfriend at the time, she chose not to care about whether I have nothing, whether in have a long happy life dependent future, she would walk a few miles away to call me and tell me she has always insisted apart. Girlfriend and later received a telephone call me to her house and told her parents the truth, should I have picked up from her home. I did not hesitate, and then driven over from Shaanxi, get off to this place in Zhuji, at one o'clock in the morning, that the position of the car to her home, three o'clock. In that the mountains, I just called the girlfriend said taxi parked on the Hill, waiting for the coming of the dawn, the dawn after inquire about his girlfriend where villages along the several villages one by one, to finally meet after an absence of nearly six months of his girlfriend, standing face to face , but all is not as we envisioned it, can Wanshou forward. So, I sadly return. Girlfriend's parents in order to completely interrupt our, put her to the uncle's home thousands of miles away, Mudanjiang. But distance is not the killer of love, we always With Flanagan telephone lines, all survived the reasons we love to tell.
Returned to his hometown Yiwu, that summer day, I believe that the year summer is hot and fiery, but the spark of love in that moment before bloom perfect wife told me to pick her up Mudanjiang, she must follow I walk. I sat for nearly 40 hours by train, transfer to Shenyang to Shanghai in Yiwu, reversing from Shenyang to Harbin, and then from Harbin to Mudanjiang, finally came to belong to the now wife location. Telephone communication, did not see the arrival of his wife, and that her brother-in-law, took a stool to sit by the door, and insists on getting her to come out to me, said to be responsible for her parents. Six hours of waiting, frustration and helplessness, only in the return of the 40-hour journey to pay homage to our love. I always believe that everything we have terminated our future is terminated, we love terminated only is one of the memories of the future life course. But love can not exist because of time, distance, age, rich or poor. I have no hope of holding this love my girlfriend a month later I am back in my eyes.
No car, no house, no diamond ring, no wedding, I completed everyone needs to experience life with his girlfriend, the end of love, the home of the Rye. She took the door that day, I do not have any material can be proud of something, only that a bunch of the roar of firecrackers to witness the end result of our emotions, love, naked marriage then why not. The words of his wife's there, is not necessarily a guide to future; does not now, does not mean that the future did not. Naked marriage, all fell in love with those who truly love adhere, as long as you believe that your lover can give you happiness, you can give your marriage fidelity.
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